Your First Time: What Nobody Told You

Your First Time: What Nobody Told You is the manual Dr. Víctor G. Page wishes someone had given you before your first sexual relationship: clear, direct, without judgment and without myths.

With more than 38 years as a gynecologist, Dr. Page explains your body using the correct names, tells you what the real risks are and how to avoid them, and teaches you to recognize when something is not right: when someone pressures you, when someone blackmails you, when someone asks you for something you don’t want to give.

This is not a book to frighten you. Nor is it a book to forbid you anything. It is so you arrive at your first time informed, calm, and safe — because your body is yours, your first time is yours, and your decision is yours.

What you will find inside:

• What virginity is and what it isn’t — and why your worth is not there
• Your body with the correct names: vulva, clitoris, hymen, orgasm, condom
• How to prepare, how to say no, and how to recognize pressure and emotional blackmail
• Pregnancy, sexually transmitted infections, and contraception, explained without fear
• Pornography, social media, and sexting: what nobody warns you about
• The questions a young woman searches on Google at 2 a.m., answered directly
• An honest checklist, “Am I Ready?”, to know where you stand before taking the step
• A second part for your parents: why to talk, how to talk, and how to support you without forbidding

Why does it cost $1? Not because it is worth $1, but because Dr. Page wants many women to read it. Information that arrives late is useless.

Read it calmly. Read it alone, or with someone you trust. But read it before, not after: information that arrives on time changes a life.

Dedication: To all the women who wished they had been well informed for their first time.